Toupence, Pamela L. (Martin), 58, of West Milford on Friday, November 24, 2017. Beloved wife of Richard L. Toupence. Born in Libertyville, IL, the daughter of the late Bernie and Jeanette (Blocks) Martin. A resident of West Milford for the past 30 years moving here from Prairie View, IL. and employed as an executive secretary for Allstate Insurance Co. and was active in the Seniors at Camp Hope, West Milford. Surviving in addition to her husband are three sons, Richard B. Toupence of Scotch Plains, NJ and Jason L. Toupence of Mankato, MN and Allan G. Proesel of Braidwood, IL, one brother, Roger A. Martin of Arlington Heights, IL and a sister Sally A. Martin of Cave Creek, AZ. Four grandchildren also survive. Memorial visitation at Richards Funeral Home, 1440 Union Valley Road, West Milford on Friday, December 1, 2017 from 2-6 PM. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Passaic County Camp Hope, 1792 Union Valley Road, West Milford, NJ 07480.